Here's a small list of things I wish I had known when I moved to college:
1. People don't mature overnight. Almost everyone is as stupid and immature as they were in high school.
2. Drama doesn't end in high school. There is still a lot of it in college.
3. People aren't watching your every move in college. They do watch some though. This leaves you with more room to royally screw up, so use your new freedom wisely.
4. Don't care what others think. Be who you want to be.
5 . Everyone is on an equal level in college. That 'popular kid' crap from high school doesn't exist. Embrace it.
6. Don't stress about making new friends. You'll have more than you can count very quickly.
7. Be open to meeting new people. It may be uncomfortable when you're sitting at a table with seven people you've never spoken to before, but you might just become best friends.
8. People have a lot of different views. I went to a small school where most people had the same views. When your college has a large population of foreign students, know that similar views won't happen.
9. Find a group where you fit in.
10. Get involved! try out clubs and organizations. If you don't like them, you can always cancel your membership.
11. Learn to disagree without being disagreeable. Different views are what keep the world advancing.
12. Lean on your friends for support. At some point they will need you too.
13. Tell your friends that you love them. Some people are hard to read.
14. Some classes suck. Don't drop them just because you don't enjoy them. Fight through. You just might learn something.
15. There is so much more homework to do than there was in high school. Try to get it all done.
16. Some professors are mean, some are boring, awkward, frightening,... If you can think of an unpleasant trait, there is most likely a professor who matches it.
17. Some professors are awesome! They enjoy teaching active learning styles to engage their students.
18. You will be uncomfortable in some classes. Deal with it.
19. Learn how to type quickly, and speed read. These skills will save you a ton of time.
20. Finals week is stressful. Don't procrastinate on studying. Use free time in the few weeks prior to finals to get a head start.
21. Take study breaks. They help you calm down and relax your mind for a bit.
22. Don't loose touch with old friends.
23. Don't forget to sleep and eat. You have to make time for these things.
24. Take advantage of free food. You're a broke kid. Don't be embarrassed to take hand outs.
25. Have fun. College is supposed to be some of the best times of yours life.
And last, but certainly not least, ALWAYS make time for your time with God. There is no way you can make it through without him.
Peace & Love,
Tabi
Monday, December 16, 2013
Thursday, December 12, 2013
Semester's End
The semester is over!! Thank the Lord! I really enjoyed this semester, but I'm very thankful that is has come to a close.
It has been a semester full of ups and downs, tears and cheers. I've made some amazing, godly friends. I've gotten involved in some awesome groups. And most importantly, I've grown in my walk with Christ. I've learned to depend on Him in times when earthly family and friends fail me. I've learned to rejoice in Him even in the face of trial and pain. I cannot wait to see what the Lord has planned for me in the coming semester.
In Summer Project news, the application has been submitted. It is out of my hands and into the hands of God and Project staff. Hopefully by this time next year I'll have a ton of stories to tell of California.
Now that the homework, studying, and stressing is over, I don't know what to do with myself. I think I'm just going to enjoy Me Time while reading and watching movies.
Merry Christmas!
Tabi
It has been a semester full of ups and downs, tears and cheers. I've made some amazing, godly friends. I've gotten involved in some awesome groups. And most importantly, I've grown in my walk with Christ. I've learned to depend on Him in times when earthly family and friends fail me. I've learned to rejoice in Him even in the face of trial and pain. I cannot wait to see what the Lord has planned for me in the coming semester.
In Summer Project news, the application has been submitted. It is out of my hands and into the hands of God and Project staff. Hopefully by this time next year I'll have a ton of stories to tell of California.
Now that the homework, studying, and stressing is over, I don't know what to do with myself. I think I'm just going to enjoy Me Time while reading and watching movies.
Merry Christmas!
Tabi
Monday, November 18, 2013
Summer Project Application
YAY!!!
The application is officially done. One reference is finished, the other will be soon. I have been procrastinating the application since November 1st, so today, I sat down and finished it. It was the most difficult application I have ever completed. A few of the questions are a bit awkward, but I guess the information is important. I'm so relieved to have it finished. Now I just have to dig up $25 to submit it.
Last weekend, OkState Cru had a stateside summer project meeting. It was awesome. I had been stressing about the money that is required, and everyone there totally encouraged me. They kind of explained the whole raising support process and told us about when they raised support. They also told us some stories from their time and project and gave us tips for when we go.
A few of my favorite tips:
Don't let money keep you from going.
Roadtrip to your location.
Ask for help.
Don't be afraid to ask EVERYONE for support.
Have fun!
Talk to your parents.
These are just a few of the tips that stuck out the most to me. I am so excited to go and give ten weeks of my summer to God.
SANTA CRUZ, HERE I COME!!!
Prayers & Love,
Tabi
The application is officially done. One reference is finished, the other will be soon. I have been procrastinating the application since November 1st, so today, I sat down and finished it. It was the most difficult application I have ever completed. A few of the questions are a bit awkward, but I guess the information is important. I'm so relieved to have it finished. Now I just have to dig up $25 to submit it.
Last weekend, OkState Cru had a stateside summer project meeting. It was awesome. I had been stressing about the money that is required, and everyone there totally encouraged me. They kind of explained the whole raising support process and told us about when they raised support. They also told us some stories from their time and project and gave us tips for when we go.
A few of my favorite tips:
Don't let money keep you from going.
Roadtrip to your location.
Ask for help.
Don't be afraid to ask EVERYONE for support.
Have fun!
Talk to your parents.
These are just a few of the tips that stuck out the most to me. I am so excited to go and give ten weeks of my summer to God.
SANTA CRUZ, HERE I COME!!!
Prayers & Love,
Tabi
Monday, October 28, 2013
Fall Retreat & Summer Projects
In September, I went to Cru Fall Retreat at Falls Creek. I only knew about five people, so I was terrified. I had no idea what to expect. I am so thankful that I went. I had a great time and learned so much about Christ. I met new people and had fellowship with some amazing believers. I even learned that I like to dance! Who would of guessed?
One of the things we talked about at Fall Retreat was Summer Project. There are many types of projects that you can go on. One of my Bible study leaders went to Chicago last summer and worked in the inner-city. She absolutely loved it.
I have decided, with a shove from God, to go on Summer Project. I am going to apply to the Santa Cruz Summer Project once applications open. I am a little stressed about how I will pay for the project if I am accepted though. The cost is $3500. That's a lot of money. One of the things Cru does is help students raise money to go. I know that if I am truly meant to go on this project, He will provide. First, though, is the application process. I don't know what it entails. There is also the fact of gaining my family's support. I don't think I will go if my parents are not supportive.
As I make my way through this journey, I ask for prayers, for peace and the guidance of the Almighty God. I ask that you pray for Him to provide not only the funds (I mean, they are kinda important), but also a way for me to go without disobeying my parents.
Here are some pictures I found while researching the project:
Blessings and Love,
Tabi
One of the things we talked about at Fall Retreat was Summer Project. There are many types of projects that you can go on. One of my Bible study leaders went to Chicago last summer and worked in the inner-city. She absolutely loved it.
I have decided, with a shove from God, to go on Summer Project. I am going to apply to the Santa Cruz Summer Project once applications open. I am a little stressed about how I will pay for the project if I am accepted though. The cost is $3500. That's a lot of money. One of the things Cru does is help students raise money to go. I know that if I am truly meant to go on this project, He will provide. First, though, is the application process. I don't know what it entails. There is also the fact of gaining my family's support. I don't think I will go if my parents are not supportive.
As I make my way through this journey, I ask for prayers, for peace and the guidance of the Almighty God. I ask that you pray for Him to provide not only the funds (I mean, they are kinda important), but also a way for me to go without disobeying my parents.
Here are some pictures I found while researching the project:
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| This is the place I would be staying. |
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| I would work on the Boardwalk!!! How awesome! |
Blessings and Love,
Tabi
College: The Beginning
College: every high school student's dream and the source of parents' never ending debt.
I have been looking forward to college for a very long time. I counted down the days until graduation when I would finally be free. The lining up in alphabetical order, walking across the stage, delivering speeches, and pictures with friends came and went. Graduating high school didn't feel like such an accomplishment. To some, it's the ultimate goal. To me, it was just a rung in the ladder of my life. I was ready for bigger and better things.
The summer before college was full of camps and sleepovers as my friends and I tried to make as many memories as possible before we went our separate ways. The day for move-in came and I was afraid. Emily and Decembre rode to Stillwater with me to move me in and leave me behind. I think they had a harder time leaving than my parents did. I sat in my room alone for two hours because I knew no one. I ended up meeting a bunch of people when I finally decided to be social.
Welcome week was pretty fun. The fun and social aspects of college without class, but there weren't very many people here yet. Then class began.
There are so many options of what to do with your time. One thing I knew for sure I wanted to do was be involved in a campus ministry. BCM, Navigators, Cru, RUF, The Table, ect. were all available. I had no idea what to do! I saw a friend in the Union that first week who told me I should go to Cru. He said I could go try out the other ministries, but I never did. I stayed at Cru. I have made so many friends through Cru even in the first few weeks of class.
I go to a freshman girls Bible study in my residence hall on Tuesdays. It is led by Victoria and Kayla, two members of the Cru leadership team. I also go to Overflow, which is a large worship service, on Tuesday nights. Cru also has Freshman Leadership Council, where we meet with other freshman in Cru for fellowship and learning about the Bible. Cru meets on Thursday nights for fellowship, worship, and a message. I absolutely love it.
All of that is not to say that there is not work. Sometimes I can't see an end to all the homework and studying, but then a take a step back and think about how truly blessed I am to have the opportunity to be in college. I am blessed beyond what I will ever understand.
College is a humbling experience. I have learned that are things I can't do. There are people who are so much smarter than me, and there are people who struggle just to keep their heads above the water.I hope to be a light to each and every person I come into contact with. I want Jesus to shine through me as I trek through this crazy thing called college.
Many blessings and love to you all,
Tabi
I have been looking forward to college for a very long time. I counted down the days until graduation when I would finally be free. The lining up in alphabetical order, walking across the stage, delivering speeches, and pictures with friends came and went. Graduating high school didn't feel like such an accomplishment. To some, it's the ultimate goal. To me, it was just a rung in the ladder of my life. I was ready for bigger and better things.
The summer before college was full of camps and sleepovers as my friends and I tried to make as many memories as possible before we went our separate ways. The day for move-in came and I was afraid. Emily and Decembre rode to Stillwater with me to move me in and leave me behind. I think they had a harder time leaving than my parents did. I sat in my room alone for two hours because I knew no one. I ended up meeting a bunch of people when I finally decided to be social.
Welcome week was pretty fun. The fun and social aspects of college without class, but there weren't very many people here yet. Then class began.
There are so many options of what to do with your time. One thing I knew for sure I wanted to do was be involved in a campus ministry. BCM, Navigators, Cru, RUF, The Table, ect. were all available. I had no idea what to do! I saw a friend in the Union that first week who told me I should go to Cru. He said I could go try out the other ministries, but I never did. I stayed at Cru. I have made so many friends through Cru even in the first few weeks of class.
I go to a freshman girls Bible study in my residence hall on Tuesdays. It is led by Victoria and Kayla, two members of the Cru leadership team. I also go to Overflow, which is a large worship service, on Tuesday nights. Cru also has Freshman Leadership Council, where we meet with other freshman in Cru for fellowship and learning about the Bible. Cru meets on Thursday nights for fellowship, worship, and a message. I absolutely love it.
All of that is not to say that there is not work. Sometimes I can't see an end to all the homework and studying, but then a take a step back and think about how truly blessed I am to have the opportunity to be in college. I am blessed beyond what I will ever understand.
College is a humbling experience. I have learned that are things I can't do. There are people who are so much smarter than me, and there are people who struggle just to keep their heads above the water.I hope to be a light to each and every person I come into contact with. I want Jesus to shine through me as I trek through this crazy thing called college.
Many blessings and love to you all,
Tabi
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